My time is mine to use as I choose. My decisions are mine to make, and not making them is actually deciding not to be responsible, which only leads to failure.
Refusing to make the decisions does not remove the responsibility from me. It only allows someone else to have access to the power to affect the outcome of my life. Eventually, that responsibility is still mine and will always be mine, no matter how irresponsibly I act.
So, long and short…, it’s time to take it back!